Sex is a dance, where two people pleasure each other in a rhythmic and cooperative way. It is an important part of your marriage, where you and your partner become very intimate. Married couples use sex as a way to express their love for each other, and to create a very unique bond that seals their relationship.
It is important to understand that there is a difference on how men and women look at sex. For women, it means affection and intimacy. For men however, it means power and sexual release. Though both seek pleasure in sex, you will notice that their attitude and values differ. This is why men are often obsessed with their penis size and their performance in the bedroom. While women are more interested in loving touch and gentle caresses.
The truth is that the size of your penis does affect your sexual performance. It all depends on your perspective. If you believe that your penis is small, no matter what your partner tells you, you will still believe it is small. Do you know that most men have penis sizes that are within the normal range? The insecurities come psychologically rather than physically.
Although even if you enlarge your penis, it is still not a guarantee that you will have a terrific sex life. For one, the most sensitive part of a woman’s vagina is not inside the canal. It is located in the outer area up to about one third deep. So it doesn’t matter if you have an abnormal two-inch penis, if you know how to pleasure this sensitive area then you will have a very satisfying sex life.
The problem is that we do not continue to learn about sex techniques to improve our sexual intercourse. We are willing to learn things like cooking, driving, golf or tennis but when it comes to sex, we assume that we should be able to know how to function without help. Usually, we shy away from taking counsel or advice in this aspect of our married life.
Another common mistake that married couples make is that they fail to communicate with each other in their love-making activities. Bear in mind that good sex is about connecting with your partner. It is important to let each other know the things you like and don’t like.
So your penis size is an issue not mostly because of the need of the woman partner, but because a larger penis can make you feel more confident. Women are generally more concerned on how good you can make them feel, no matter what size you got.